Ok, this is it.  The rest of my guidelines for a modest woman with fashion sense…So although I don’t want to tell anyone what to do, I feel like I need to be “momma” here for a few moments and remind all of us that how we dress is a biblical issue. My guidelines here are basically just a few suggestions to make us think about what we wear so we can makegodly choices in our wardrobes and demeanors.

• I want to remind you that contrary to popular belief; “modest” and “fashionable” are not enemies. Decide what your standards of modesty are, and find trendy pieces that fit within those standards. Avoid clothing that does not flatter you, and aim for pieces that truly make you look your best. Look for fitted pieces. Fitted pieces does not mean, “Skin tight,” but clothes that brush against the natural contours of your body. You do not have to completely hide your curves to still be modest. Fitted pieces that lightly form to your curves will actually make you look clean-cut and well put together.
• Do you want me to be more specific? I can. Watch your necklines. It’s a cleavage issue. How low our neckline goes depends on how “blessed” we are in that department. Here’s the thing gals…cleavage is a problem for guys. Though men are responsible for handling their “lust” issues, we don’t want to make it harder on them. So avoid sheer materials or fabrics that sculpt your body. Draw attention to your face not your bust.
• If you fall in love with a top or dress that has a deep v-neck or low square neckline, don’t despair. Disguise low necklines by placing a camisole or tank top beneath your shirt. A plain camisole or one with feminine lace detailing at the neck can transform that garment into something that’s attractive, yet modest. Layering in stylish gals. Have fun adding a bit of flare to your wardrobe with layers and cute accessories. Consider a trendy fashion scarf. Scarves are in style, and they come in a variety of colors, patterns, and looks. They also have the added benefit of covering more skin at the base of your neck and top of your chest.
• Let’s not forget our bottom half. Wear pants that are fitted, but not excessively tight in the seat or thigh. You should be able to pinch and pull a bit of the fabric away from your leg. Of course you can always wear long shirts that are flowing to cover up your derriere and upper thighs so that there is an air of mystery about you. Panty lines are tacky; keep them Pantyhose, slips, and shapers can help create a smooth appearance, if needed.
• Elongate your leg with heels. If you have a knee-length skirt or maxi skirt, consider wearing heels to make your legs look a little longer. I’m at an age where comfort means much more to me than cute shoes. But as a “shortie” I’ve gotta’ tell you that longer legs do look attractive, but not necessarily immodest. The right heel will help you look confident and beautiful without looking sultry.
• Add personality with accessories. Hats are great. They’re cute; they come in all shapes and sizes, and will complete your look. They also help with those bad hair days! Wear colorful jewelry. Wear one key piece at a time, or coordinate multiple pieces at once to bring color to your entire ensemble. Let your imagination run free while selecting watches, necklaces, bracelets, rings, and earrings. Of course, not to excess, that was the problem with the Ephesians, but tastefully, and with a bit of flare and fun.
• Modest clothing is beautiful. While we each have slightly different perspectives on what is ugly, as Christian women we should try and dress in a way that is beautiful. Not elaborate or decadent or seductive, but beautiful.
• Don’t bring attention to your less-favorite features. I firmly believe that every woman, as a creation of our wonderful God, is beautiful.  However, some of us have features we would rather not have noticed.  For example, you might have a larger-than-average chest.  If so, don’t wear very form-fitting or low-necked tops.  Don’t buy things that are too small for you. Seriously, gals. No one is going to know the size. Buy what fits regardless of the size.  Wear less patterned tops and more solid colors.  Don’t wear big necklaces that draw attention to your chest. If you have a waist that has held in multiple children over the years, or too many potato chips, don’t fret.  But don’t wear bright belts or sashes, either.  Wear shirts that you can leave untucked over your pants or skirt.  Draw attention to your face with shirt that has collars, or pretty necklaces. If your legs are very long don’t wear jeans that have a flare at the bottom, these make your legs look longer.  Wear skirts and dresses that hit mid-calf or lower so your knees are hidden. If you’re short, try wearing all the same color from head to toe.  Don’t wear anything that’s at all too big for you.  Wear skirts and pants that flare at the bottom.  Wear high heels if you can and you like them.  If you like stripes, wear them vertical.
• Oh, and one last thing. There is a difference between fixed modesty and functional modesty. New terms for you? Let me explain, when you stand looking in the mirror and everything looks good, the important areas are covered. That’s fixed modestly. But what about when you bend over, does your shirt gap? When you reach for something on the top shelf, does your stomach show? When you sit down with your legs crossed, are you still modest? We’re talking about modesty that stays with you through the day, not just when you stand in front of the mirror.